a podcast of people sharing their personal histories to make the world a more loving place
share your sex storIES
Real stories, shared by real people.
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Anyone: if you feel a spark to share your experiences, desires, and growth, join me to record your most personal history.
Professionals: how do you make the world a sexier place? Share your mission, work, and perspective.
question outline
We don't get to most of these—but I encourage you to ask your lover every single one, and this is the level of detail I love:
INTRO
rate yourself on a sexual shame-o-meter (10 high / 0 low) when and why has it squiggled?
what is sex? what is sexy?
what's your sex life like right now?
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how much do you and your partner(s) talk about sex?
what are your health & safety practices? testing, barriers, preferences, boundaries, conversation with partners etc.
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[PRO] what exactly is your job like? what do you love about it?
[PRO] how does your work help people connect?
LEARNINGS
[PRO] what's your professional origin story?
[PRO] what’s your favorite thing to teach others about love/sex/connection, and how did you learn about it?
How did you learn about love, sex, connection and pleasure growing up? Take us through your personal education timeline:
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when do you remember becoming aware of sex?
did you get a sex talk? sex ed? consent ed?
how did the culture, media, family values and friendships you grew up with influence your formative relationship to sex?
solo play: discovery and pleasure evolution
partnered play: meaningful “firsts” and the experiences that led you to where you are now
when do you feel like you started to understand your own sexuality?
how do sex and love affect each other in your life?
what type of connection do you need to want sex?
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LOVES
what do you love about sex?
solo play?
giving and receiving: hands & holes & how?
body sensations?
kinks?
fetishes?
fantasies?
turn-ons?
locations?
toys?
nudes?
porn habits?
sex dreams?
what are your orgasms like?
what kind of lover are you?
other stand-out stories?
[PRO] what are some favorite highlights of your work?
(CO)CREATION
what else are you curious about? tell us your hopes for the future.
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if you suddenly had an unlimited budget to build your own personal pleasure palace, what would it be like?
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if you could go back in time and give younger-you a piece of sex-related advice, what age(s) would you pick and what would you say?
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what do we need to create a sexier, more loving world where taking care of each other is the norm?
The best way to spread love? Tell people about what you love—and invite them to do the same. Let's spread some sexy ripples and co-create a world where taking care of each other is the norm.
